30 and still single-Where should I go to meet men?

I was wondering where would be a good place to meet men? I have heard all my life to wait for love, but it has been 30 years and I am still without someone to love or to love me. Not complaining, just saying that I think it is time to do things differently. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Well at least according to Einstein it is. So it's time that I went fishing, take fate into my own hands. So I am wondering where to go fishing. And if you all have stories about when you were getting up there in age and all the sudden found someone please share. I need some hope. Thanks!