I find that a lot of women who are upset that their boyfriends/husband watch porn claim that they're upset?

because the man "snuck" and did it, that he wasn't doing it out in the open. I want to challenge this because i feel like those women would be complaining either way. If he was watching it out in the open, in front of them, they'd then be mad and say that he didn't have the decency to do it by himself, to himself and the nerve of him for broadcasting his horrid addictions! and with the other way they accuse him of sneaking because they claim "well what ELSE are you up to that I don't know about?" pretty much making a mountain of a mole hill. so i feel that with that a man really can't win either way. What do you think of my advice to men who are considering entering into relationships with women: When you're first getting to know a girl, since you already know most women have insecurity issues and/or are hostile to porn, go a head and display your stash in the forefront the first time she comes over to your place. that way you can go ahead and get out in the open the fact that you're a porn consumer (like the average male) and if she can't deal with that she can make the choice to not get further involved. trust me when i say that though it'll seem self-defeating at first, in the long run she'll be appreciative of you for being honest and you'll be able to move on and find someone with whom you share true and total compatibility. becasue believe it or not, if you love watching porn and your girlfriend/wife hates it, then you are NOT compatible. there's no compromising on porn. either you're gonna watch it or you're not, so...that's my suggestion for getting to the nitty gritty of things. what do you all think?